Dest and Kate

Best friends:

Best Friends are very special people in your life. They are the first people you think about when you make plans. They are the first people you go to when you need someone to talk to. You will phone them up just to talk about nothing, or the most important things in your life. When you’re sad they will try their hardest to cheer you up. They give the best hugs in the world! They are the shoulder to cry on, because you know that they truly care about you. In most cases they would take a bullet for you, coz it would be too painful to watch you get hurt. (Urban Dictionary)

All my life, I had friends. I was pretty close to some at times, not one of them were good enough friends that I felt I could truly and honestly be myself with, because I was scared of being judged. I have always been careful with people in terms of trust. I have been hurt many time in my life by people I thought I could trust, my dad says its because I wear my heart on my sleeve and care too much about people- is that really a fault though? So over time I have put up a wall around me, not letting anyone in, guarding myself.

This all changed when I met Destiny. This girl has changed my life. She has been the one person who has cared enough to take the time to try to tear down my walls, and slowly but surly she is doing it. People often refer to me as “special” – I honestly prefer “unique” but lets not get technical- mainly because I am different. I see life in a way that from what I understand, is a lot different from how others see the world. Most people don’t understand me, and don’t try to. Destiny tried to. She’s actually a lot like me in that way, we are both rather unique.  Around her I say what I want to say, stupid, random, off the wall, anything I want to, and yes she may laugh because what I say may be the weirdest thing ever, but that’s me, and she understands person. And man, is she ever funny! When we are together, there is no telling what is going to be going on. I honestly at times wonder what people are thinking when they are standing near Destiny and I in a store or waiting in line somewhere, because our conversations are quite interesting to say the least! Ha! And I don’t apologize at all for it! She is also my slap in the face. She is the one to comfort me on a bad day, she lets me speak my mind, and then she pretty much tells me to snap out of it, encourages me to stand up and to carry on. She has been the most amazing friend I have ever had. She is amazing to me. She has such a great talent, a bright future (that she somehow does not see), she has the most kind and generous heart and most of all the best sense of humor ever. I honestly thank God everyday for her! I don’t know how I would have gotten through school without her!

Destiny, thank you for being such an amazing friend. Thanks for being there for me!  oh and thanks for putting up with all of my weird (creative) ideas! and thanks for enjoying my quirky personally and weird passion for the diva song! (or at least putting up with all that craziness) I will never ever be able to ever put into words, or find a way to thank you for all the things you have done for me. All I know to do is say thank you. So dear d. wiens…THANK YOU! Nnnarrrr!

I can’t for the upcoming years of shanagins and adventures. Its going to be a blast! Oh and people of Banana Bender… brace yourself dest and kate are coming your way! haha

 

I miss you dest! pew pew!